Why Bother With The Teddy Bear?

This is how me feels, most of the time... and thats why theres the pink bear in my room. hehe.

Love and Life by Albert Einstein

This is a random note i got tagged in on FB by Jenny ...and I thought it was very nicely said , so I'll share it with you guys (:

Sometimes in our relentless effort to find the person we love, we fail to recognize and appreciate the people who love us. We miss out on so many beautiful things simply because we allow ourselves to be enslaved by our own selfish concerns.

Go for the man/woman of deeds and not for the man/woman of words, for you will find rewarding happiness, not with the man/woman you love but with the man/woman who loves you more.

The best lovers are those capable of loving from a distance far enough to allow the person to grow but never too far to feel the love within your being.

To let go of someone doesn’t mean you have to stop loving; it only means that you allow that person to find his/her own happiness without expecting him/her to come back. Letting go is not just setting the other person free, but is also setting yourself free from all the bitterness, hatred, and anger that you keep in your heart. Do not let the bitterness take away your strength and weaken your faith, and never allow pain to dishearten you; but rather let yourself grow with wisdom in bearing it.

You may find peace in loving someone from a distance not expecting something in return. But be careful, for this can sustain life but can never give enough room for us to grow. We can all survive with just beautiful memories of the past, but real peace and happiness come only with open acceptance of what reality is today.

There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice and beautiful and we just find ourselves so intensely attracted to that person. This feeling soon becomes a part of our everyday lives and eventually consumes our thoughts and actions. The sad part of it is when we begin to realize that this person feels nothing more for us than just a friendship. We start our desperate attempt to get noticed and be closer, but in the end our efforts are still unrewarded and we end up being sorry for ourselves. You don’t have to forget someone you love. What you need to learn is how to accept the verdict of reality without being bitter or sorry for yourself. Believe me, you would be better off giving that dedication and love to someone more deserving.

Don’t let your heart run your life, be sensible and let your mind speak for itself. Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well.Always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that someone better is coming tomorrow. If you lose love, that doesn’t mean you failed in love.

Cry if you have to, but make sure that tears wash away the hurt and the bitterness that the past has left with you. Let go of yesterday and love will find its way back to you. And when it does, pray that it may be the love that will stay and last a lifetime.

There are two ways to live your life: One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle.There is no mistake so painful that love cannot forgive, no past so bitter that love cannot accept, and no love so little that we cannot start all over with.

Run Away With Me

I wish, i wish i wish, i could run away,
away from the pressures of how life functions,
in a city and in a community,
where everything physical matters,
everything material matters,
everything superficial matters,
i wish i could run away with you,
you who loves me for who I am ,
you who sees that none of this matters at the end of the day,
and you who don't intimidate, don't judge, don't compete,
but as for now, theres no where to run,
theres no backing out of this ,
I've made this choice, I've got to stay....
but come away with me,
let walk barefoot on white sand,
lets walk through daffodils, and poppy fields,
lets walk with the Shepard dog ,
lets run and forget the worries,
lets run till we're far from all this,
just you and me...

Dating Game 09/10

These are the much delayed snippets from the KR's Dating Game 09/10. Since I was the senior this year, I had the er, pleasure of being chased after by the freshmen. All in all it was alot of fun, got to tease and bully the juniors a little(: haha.



I'm not much of an artsy-fartsy person, but I tried (: This was the 'yes' I did for my date.


Ballooned flower

Boon and his out of tune but very sincere serenade.

Thats Fern making her date a Korean/Sri Lankan flag in my room

Thats Du Yao and Luky :D

And this is my decorated door . yay!

Why the pig ): I don't know either. hehe.

and the alcoholic pig again ...

Hui Min's exceptionally sweet 'YES' from her date (:

My YES pup for my date.

Un-Ethical Me

I havent had much time alone lately, and thus no time for me n myself to sit and get deep into thought...
However I did just recover from a fever and an eyelid infection.Yup, I got it from peeping at boys -_-"" ( or so, that was what my dad said) hehe...
The doctor at UHWC told me it was the beginning of a stye or smthg, stye eye, or you can call it (Pop-eye) like I do!:D which brings me to the reason I thought of this post itself. Heres the scenario upon my eye consultation at UHWC :

Doc: So, I see you're from the school of Medicine.
me: Er, yeah *shy grin*
Doc: Are you having lectures now?
me: Errrrrr, yup, I kinda skipped a lecture to come and see you, an ethics lecture !(wrong move)
Doc: (with full blown enthusiasm) OhhhhHH!! then let me give you a make-up lecture then!

So there I was in the clinic, listening to various ethical/unethical scenarios put forth by the doctor. ahhah..! he was pretty charming tho ;) and he thought me a thing or two about the subject which I never saw much purpose in learning.
What he said was that, ethics are always ABOVE the law and above everything else, and what is ethical is basically what is the LOVING thing to do, not necessarily the right thing ! and it got me thinking how strange it was that we(soulful beings created by God) find it so hard to do whats loving, as opposed to what is cost-effective or what is the most convenient thing to do. Seems to me as if we've all forgotten how to live and love, but instead we've merely just learnt how to function and survive in this world ): He also mentioned that, in any relationship, it bores down to two things,
you either LOVE the person, or you either USE the person. Love being that, you put the persons good above your own, and use being that you put yourself above the other. If thats the case I think we live our life making use of the people around us...even though we'll never admit to that =/
okay, enough on the emo talk (: Im gonna go munch on Rocky Road while I try and digest my Genetics,Epigenetics,Pharmacogenetics lectures. *sobbles*